RICHARD JACK III

It’s not burnout. It’s confusion masked as ambition. I help high performers silence the chaos, reclaim their focus, and execute with unshakable clarity and purpose.

I Am

I’m Richard Jack III.

Everyone thought I had it all together — calm under pressure, always dependable, the one everyone leaned on.

For 20 years in the military, I led elite teams through chaos every day. On the outside, I was solid. But inside? I was exhausted. Numb. I remember sitting alone in my car after work, staring at the steering wheel, thinking: “Is this really it?”

I’d built a life that impressed everyone — but fulfilled no one.

Everything changed at a seminar I almost skipped. The speaker asked: “What three words describe you today?” I wrote: Driven. Focused. Disciplined. Then he asked: “Who do you want to be?” After a long pause, I wrote: Relaxed. Fun. Fulfilled.

That realization forced me to change everything. And now? I help others do the same.

This Is Why I Do This

Because I know what it’s like to feel invisible behind a title. Because I know what it’s like to be needed but never truly seen. Because I know how it feels to finally come back to yourself — and live life on your own terms.

That’s what I want for you.

Life On The Other Side

You wake up with a sense of purpose again. You stop second-guessing yourself. You start showing up as the leader you thought you’d be by now — for yourself and everyone around you. You feel lighter, clearer, and more alive than you have in years.

How I Work With People

I don’t coddle. I don’t sugarcoat. But I do care enough to tell you the truth you’ve been avoiding.

What you can count on: - Brutal honesty. Because no one else will tell you. - Relentless accountability. No more hiding behind titles. - A safe space to drop the mask. Finally. - Clear direction. So you don’t waste another day spinning your wheels.

One Last Thing

You don’t have to keep carrying it alone. You don’t need to wait for another title, another paycheck, another year.

People Trust Me

  • Retired Senior NCO, United States Air Force

  • Air Traffic Controller, Military Leader.

  • CEO & Co-Founder, Gentlemen & Ladies by Choice

  • MBA & MS in Counseling

  • Duke Certificate in Nonprofit Management Program

  • Certified High Performance & Mastermind Coach

  • NLP & Mindpower Practitioner

  • Trusted by leaders in corporate, military, and nonprofit spaces

TESTIMONIALS

The tools and techniques I acquired have profoundly impacted my professional journey, yielding significant returns on my investment in coaching. The benefits extend beyond my career success, positively influencing my overall well-being.

— Dr. Eboni Caridine

Your guidance helped me uncover limiting beliefs, step out of my comfort zone, and embrace change with confidence. I’ve grown more self-aware, confident, and focused on my goals — both personally and professionally.

— Savanna Sibley

Start Your Conversation Today

This isn’t a sales pitch. It’s a real conversation about what’s really going on — and what’s next.

Helping high performers stop pretending and start living


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