Service has shaped everything I’ve done — from 20 years in the military to 13 years leading a nonprofit I built from the ground up.
For years, I looked steady on the outside — calm, focused, dependable. But inside, I felt disconnected.
I had done everything “right,” yet something was missing.
Then came the moment that changed everything.
I was asked:
“What three words describe you today?”
I wrote: Driven. Focused. Disciplined.
Then:
“Who do you want to be?”
I paused… then wrote: Relaxed. Fun. Fulfilled.
That moment cracked me open — and set me on a new path.
Today, I help high performers, young people, and those in transition reconnect with who they truly are.
Through coaching, mentoring, and honest conversation, I guide others to grow from within — to find clarity, direction, and peace.
Because the journey back to yourself is the most important one you’ll ever take.
Because I know what it’s like to feel invisible behind a title. Because I know what it’s like to be needed but never truly seen. Because I know how it feels to finally come back to yourself — and live life on your own terms.
That’s what I want for you.
You wake up with a sense of purpose again. You stop second-guessing yourself. You start showing up as the leader you thought you’d be by now — for yourself and everyone around you. You feel lighter, clearer, and more alive than you have in years.
I don’t coddle. I don’t sugarcoat. But I do care enough to tell you the truth you’ve been avoiding.
What you can count on: - Brutal honesty. Because no one else will tell you. - Relentless accountability. No more hiding behind titles. - A safe space to drop the mask. Finally. - Clear direction. So you don’t waste another day spinning your wheels.
You don’t have to keep carrying it alone. You don’t need to wait for another title, another paycheck, another year.
Retired Senior NCO, United States Air Force
Air Traffic Controller, Military Leader.
CEO & Co-Founder, Gentlemen & Ladies by Choice
MBA & MS in Counseling
Duke Certificate in Nonprofit Management Program
Certified High Performance & Mastermind Coach
NLP & Mindpower Practitioner
Trusted by leaders in corporate, military, and nonprofit spaces
TESTIMONIALS
The tools and techniques I acquired have profoundly impacted my professional journey, yielding significant returns on my investment in coaching. The benefits extend beyond my career success, positively influencing my overall well-being.
— Dr. Eboni Caridine
Your guidance helped me uncover limiting beliefs, step out of my comfort zone, and embrace change with confidence. I’ve grown more self-aware, confident, and focused on my goals — both personally and professionally.
— Savanna Sibley
This isn’t a sales pitch. It’s a real conversation about what’s really going on — and what’s next.
Helping high performers stop pretending and start living
Richard Jack III | Clarity Coach | rj3consultants.com
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